Wilson & Lora are active in the Chicago BDSM community and have been honored to speak around the country on a variety of alt sex topics. Experienced BDSM practitioners, we love the raw, intense, raucous sides of BDSM and believe that BDSM is a unique means through which to explore and uninhibitedly unleash powerful desires and emotions.

Perverts to the core, we love the challenge of pushing and prodding at boundaries, reaching for more in search of the intensity that we each crave. We “go deep” and take what we do very seriously, but we also have a great time with it, which we make every effort to reflect in our presentations.

Our presentations, although often focused on what many would consider edge play, are geared toward demystifying even the most intense forms of BDSM scenes by delving into the sources of their power, focusing on practical issues and, whenever feasible, providing a demonstration followed by a Q & A session.

A gentle pat. A quick, attention getting smack. A jarring strike. A flurry of assaulting blows.

All are types of face slapping that can bash not just the face but the ego. Packing an impact that goes beyond just the physical, a slap across the face is a loaded statement, one that some fear and some crave.

What is the appeal? How is it done? Where can it take you?

We will probe and examine the foundations of its potency, offer practical tips on how to get more out of face slapping, address some of the physical and emotional safety issues involved, and discuss and demonstrate different types of face slapping.

Fantasies about being raped or raping someone are prevalent in both men and women. Among those involved in alternative sexual lifestyles, there is a real opportunity to live out even the most extreme of those fantasies in the context of a rape scene.

From the perspective of both fantasy rapist and victim, we will talk about the appeal of rape fantasies, discuss factors to consider when determining whether or not to act on them, and address the practicalities of bringing several kinds of rape fantasies to life, including different ways to negotiate consent, strategies for orchestrating rape scenes, potential pitfalls, and some of the legal issues involved.