Kinky Kollege Spring Break 2019

Steven / Carnal_Knowledge

Steven / Carnal_Knowledge founded Building Blocks, the BDSM education program in Las Vegas.  He sits on the associate Board for Las Vegas PRIDE and organizes the Proudly Inappropriate Adult Playspace at the local PRIDE Festival.  He presents on BDSM at vanilla and kink conferences across the country, and he supports all sex-positive conferences and events hosted in Las Vegas.


Gray Miller, aka “Graydancer”, has been teaching, performing, and advocating for kink and BDSM for over a decade.

His work as a professional writer and web content developer can be found all over the world, including “Graydancer’s Podcast”, formerly the “Ropecast”- the longest-running kink podcast on the web. He is also the Training Director for Consent Rocks and Direct of ROPECRAFT.  Gray’s cigar & leather play was featured on “Our America with Lisa Ling” on the Oprah Network. Over 60 of his “GRUE” Open Space events have occurred in five countries.

Gray is passionate about subjects such as rope, power exchange, leather, cigars, consent in the community, performance, and the educational aspects of kink.

Kevin and katie

Kevin and katie have lived as Master/slave for the last 16 years, and enact the relationship using an Executive model. They are the recipients of the 2017 International Power Exchange title.  They are retired early, and use their time traveling and teaching.
As a retired psychologist, Kevin guides their focus on helping people create, maintain and optimize their relationships and personal growth. Their rollicking presentations mix humor, honesty, and practical strategies.


Naiia is a masochistic, bottom-leaning switch who has been in the public BDSM life for about eight years. She started out in rope and while it continues to be something she loves her path seems to be leading her toward M/s and Leather. Naiia also has been starting to teach about the importance of addressing how age, injury, and mental health play a part in what it is we do. As Graydancer’s serva she has been demo bottom, native guide, personal assistant and on-call courtesan and is now adding co-presenter and presenter to that list.

The Kitty

Mostly the doer of things, The Kitty works, lives and plays somewhere between the ridiculous and the macabre. With a day job in the medical field and a background in scouts, she is prepared and knowledgeable of how to hurt folks, while being safe and reverent about it. A lover of the absurd and unusual, The Kitty puts her own special spin in everything she does.  She lives an open polysomething lifestyle with her two partners and has been in the public kink scene since 2006.

Travis Wilson and WolfMoon

Travis Wilson has been an attorney since 1972, and in the Leather/BDSM lifestyle almost as long. He was a founder of Houston’s PEP, founder of the Houston S&M Ball. He has presented at many events around the country. Travis focuses on doing joint workshops with his Significant Other, the lovely WolfMoon73. Together they teach blood play/piercing and communication classes. When not working or playing with his leather toys, Travis plays trumpet in Jazz, Rock/Blues/R&B, and church “praise” bands. Hey, a guy has to have some fun once in a while.

WolfMoon’s journey began in the fall of 2006 with a visit to the local Milwaukee munch group, and with a question, “Would you like to help build dungeon furniture?” Eager to learn and explore, and with the help of experienced friends, she jumped directly into the deep end of the pool, and it’s been Game On ever since! Attending workshops, being a demo bottom at many events, as well as exploring with close friends, helped her realize that the intense, Edgy forms of play, including blood, needles, rough body play, whips and flesh hook suspension and hook pulls make her heart and spirit sing. She has also discovered that it brings her joy to top as well as bottom. She is an avid professional jeweler, craftsperson, loves playing with metals and likes preparing suspension hooks for those who enjoy some time hanging from trees with hooks in their bodies. If you add in her great love for strap-on play, and a bit of switchy teasing fun, you can start getting a picture of the fullness and fluidity of her Kink life.

Diva Electrique

Diva brings along with him a passionate devotion to electricity, fetish fashion, and pleasure products. Interested in kink since a young age, Diva has spent years gathering a wealth of knowledge and information, both text and by play experience from a variety of sources within the kink community. After involving himself in several Wisconsin groups, he has now found his home and friends within the Madison and Fox Valley scenes. Shiny, zappy things have always held his fascination and revere, and Diva has dedicated many hours to discovering and inventing new ways of playing and displaying his electrical, latex and fetish fashion kinks.

Pup Havok

Pup Havok is a slutty sex positive St. Bernard who calls Cincinnati, Ohio home. This boot licking boofer lives up to his namesake in many different fashions and a proud “queer-as-fuck switch,” Havok has made quite a name for himself in the leather and Kink community since joining in 2012. He is a co-founder of Project Touch Base, currently serves as a full member of the Titans of the Midwest and the GDI Outlaws, and is the recipient of the Bear Abbot Community Commitment Award 2018. He can be described as extremely touchy-feely given some his favorite kinks include heavy impact, tactile knife, fisting and of course, puppy play. He also enjoys facing the elements with electro and fire play.

Boomer & lisa

A native of Atlanta, Ga., Boomer is a dominant sadist with above average hand eye coordination, a passion for single tail whips, intense SM and the D/s dynamic.  He enjoys the privilege of owning lisa and jennifer. He has been active in the BDSM community since 1997 as a member of Atlanta’s Sanctuary of a Dark Angel, PEP, Tribe, The Boston Dungeon Society and 1763.

He has led hands-on workshops and given presentations at many events around the country.

Outside of kink he enjoys being a cat Daddy, carpentry and working with his hands in general, cycling, baseball, good food and drink and thinks a man and his truck is a beautiful thing.

Lisa relishes various elements within kink, from playing, socializing, serving; to the joys of ensuring her stilettos match her lingerie. She attended her first BDSM event in 2003 after it occurred to her that perhaps something existed beyond the rather bad BDSM porn she had been reading.

She has served on the boards of North Carolina CAPEX and Atlanta Southeast Leather Fest, and has taught classes at Many events. She previously organized Atlanta Service Geeks for others to share and learn new service techniques.  Lisa has been happily owned by Boomer for the last 10 years and delights in baking homemade “aftercare” brownies for the sobbing girls in his playroom.

Leftenant Fox Bio

Also known as L.T. or Fox is a PolyQueer, sadistic switch and proud house member of The Menagerie and has been in the community since 2014. She enjoys pet play, rope, trampling and flogging. She is in a deeply loving Power Exchange with her Lord Ender and Lover Hillarie. Fox has led a vagabond life in which curiosity and connection are the driving forces in her journey. Combining over 13 years of martial, spiritual, anatomical, and bodywork teaching experience creates safe classes and environments that engage and spark the fires of discovery in attendees.

Rain DeGray

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes, focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education. After getting her start as a fetish model and Pro Domme, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear and humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style and she believes strongly in making sex education fun. Her work has been featured in such places as Playboy TV’s “69 sexiest things to do before you die”, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, Exotic Erotic, Rope::Burn, Kink-e-zine and Femina Potens. In 2017 she was named the dirtiest mouth in San Francisco upon winning the Dirty Talk Game Show at Dark Odyssey.

Rain DeGrey spends her time teaching classes, writing articles, her online advice column, producing podcasts, and providing one on one coaching to select clients.

Twitter: @raindegrey
Facebook: @raindegrey
FetLife: Rain DeGrey

Scott Smith

Scott Smith grew up in the Northwest and began exploring the facets of S&M at an early age. With his creative and rather deviant mind, he enthusiastically developed his techniques of bondage and suspension from his experience with nautical and high angle rope work. The powerful physical interactions that became the hallmark of his S&M activities were initially necessities for various activities including white water rafting, scuba, climbing, and paramedical rescue. Scott brings a distinct intensity and passion to the ebb and flow of learning, teaching and actualizing S&M. A believer that the magic of BDSM comes through the connection of the participants, his workshops develop and nurture that connection; while maintaining a decidedly sadistic edginess.

Feel free to contact Scott through

FetLife: Scott_Smith

The Carnie

Tom Hill, is a Seattle, WA artist (originally from Chicago, IL). Tom started performing professionally as a teenager, performing art creations of experiential environmentally controlled happenings. Founder of The Carnival of Curiosity & Chaos, where their creative team performs arts and entertainment happenings, featuring aerial acrobatics, fire, escapes, circus, fetish, sideshow, and flesh hook suspension. Tom is an experienced and licensed body piercer and body modifier, known for his artistic hook suspension performances. Tom performs with national tattoo conventions, and lectured on Hook Suspension and Needle Play nationwide. To Tom, it’s not just another piercing, it is a unique and personal experience, where each persons’ specifics and details are the basis of the quality work and body interaction. Tom creates complex and elaborate line work through skillfully executed needle piercings. His artistic vision utilizes his attention to detail to create distinctive piercings and needle play work.


Trinity (writergirl on FetLife) is a published author, coach, and kink educator living in Atlanta, GA. She has been involved with the lifestyle in some capacity since 1993, having been drawn primarily by the mental, d/s side of things. She identifies as poly, is married, and is the s-type in a M/s relationship separate from her husband. She’s taught multiple kink-related topics across the Southeast at major events, dungeons, and local groups in Atlanta, GA, Nashville, TN, Tampa, FL, Baton Rouge, LA, as well as Alabama and North and South Carolina. You can find her on Twitter @Trinity Writes and you can check out her book on Amazon at


Jaki Griot


In 2006, Jaki found the local BDSM community through the TNG movement and served on the Steering Committee for The Next Generation, Baltimore for six years. Jaki worked for (People Exchanging Power) as a phone dominant and sex counselor. Jaki worked at Sugar the Shop (a woman and trans operated adult toy store) as a sex educator. Since 2007, Jaki Griot has taught classes for many local and national organizations. Her published erotica and essays related to kink and BDSM appear in Salacious Magazine, Sacred Kink Anthology, Carter/Johnson Leather Library and the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.

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Mistress Starlight & Dizzy

Mistress Starlight & Dizzy have been in the kink lifestyle for collectively for well over 20 years. We have been married for 19 years. In the kink culture, we have facilitated courses at numerous events as well as worked with others to create educational content to safely introduce the vanilla folks to the kink world for the past 13 years. The information that we put forth in our classes is not the only way to do what we all do but is from our own personal experiences and views. We play using RACK, We know the Risks, but always be Aware, play is Consensual, and damn it better be Kinky.


Tisiphone is a queer, polyamorous, cisgender woman who identifies as a sadomasochist, switch, little girl and kitty cat. She has been involved in the BDSM community for eight years and helps organize for several Pittsburgh groups. She believes that fun things happen from a bit of mischief; therefore, it is likely you will see her poking the sadist, teasing her slave, or otherwise instigating adventures. It’s all in the name of fun, promise.



Anandalila (or ‘Lila for short) self identifies as a queer, witchy switch. She began her tantric journey more than 12 years ago when she entered a yoga studio that unexpectedly changed her life for the better. Today ‘Lila brings gentle movement, breath awareness, and energetic experiences to people of all genders, shapes, sizes, and abilities in the metro Atlanta area and beyond. When she is not on the mat, she enjoys making art, bird watching, and, of course, chocolate.


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